Tips and Advice

Connecting with others

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Ngā Manukura

Leadership

Te Oranga

Participation in Society

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Loneliness is something we all feel from time to time – and it’s something many ākonga mention experiencing, regardless of whether they are studying online, within the workplace or on campus.

So what are some simple things you can do to form new connections? Fellow learners share their tips, ideas and words of encouragement.

Thea: Things I would suggest to someone who feels nervous or feels lonely.

Phil: I recommend to just put yourself out there. Talk to people. Just say hi.

Connor: I would just go in and say, hi, my name's Connor.

Ezra: I'm studying this…

Connor: Like being back at school on the playground, and I don't mind if I look a bit dorky.

Carmina: Be friendly to everyone. Give everyone a chance.

Thea: Get involved. That's the best way for you to make friends.

Liam: Linking up with your classmates is a really good way to sort of like, you know, have someone there that's going through the same thing as you.

Thea: When someone reaches out, it actually feels good no matter how small. Just give your best to put yourself out there.

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